Dating your friend39s ex girlfriend
Atlanta, Georgia (CNN) -- "Would you be upset if a friend starting dating someone they knew you were once deeply in love with?
" This is the status I was greeted with this week on the Facebook page of one of my dear girlfriends.
I would be happy if they found new happiness, but it would be too odd if it were with a close friend of mine.
That would mean I might run into one of them occasionally and see him look at my friend the same way he once looked at me.
However, if you and your ex didn't work out just because you just weren't right for each other and there was no real drama involved, what's the harm if your current girlfriend and someone you once loved end up together?
"Once loved" are the operative words here Too often, women become territorial, trying to mark our men as if past loves are actually possessions that we own for life.
the amount of love, commitment and investment you had in your relationship with your ex-boyfriend.
If the woman is a close friend, the likelihood of this becoming an issue is slim.
But that authenticity helps with attraction—it’s the foundation of real connection,” says Brandy Engler, Ph. and author of the book, Here’s the other side we can totally agree on: You can’t date a person while they’re dating your friend.Historically, Girl Code Rule #2 is “Thou shalt not date the ex of her friend.” No matter how long it’s been or how short their romance.This code is so hard-wired in the feminine psyche that a fourth grader knew it when asked to configure dates for four men and four women on a math test, and she cited the moral dilemma saying, “I can’t answer this problem because my mom says according to girl code you shouldn’t date a friends x boyfriend. What if you live in a town with a population of under five thousand? According to Urban Dictionary, Girl Code is “The code of guidelines that girls must obey in order not to get kicked out of the community.” The range of rules changes from squad to tribe to whatever you call your girl group.While the rules are many and varied, there are some age-old rules that always apply.
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That said, at the end of the day you should do what’s truly best for you.